Tag: romance

  • An Earthly Paradise: From Passo Vico to Ravenna

    The last stretch to Ravenna boasts two magical gardens where I would meet a friend and a soul mate who showed me that Dante’s divine love is at once self-reflective, shared and in harmony with the natural world.

    Kelsey and I had a leisurely breakfast at our lodging, Fattoria Chiocce Romagnole, with the two fellow male Italian pilgrims and our host, Rossella. She explained a bit more about the flooding that had occurred in the region on the 17th of May, 2023, a date that she had tattooed on the inside of her left arm. The water had come in through the windows where we were now eating fresh apple cake made by her mother. 

    ‘The most disturbing thing was the screams of the animals in the night,’ she said.

    She had lost one goat and saved another by giving it mouth-to-mouth resuscitation. A lot of the birds perished. In the morning, the fire service had come in a dinghy to rescue her dogs. 

    ‘At least here the water was clean,’ explained Rossella, ‘further down it became muddy and even more treacherous.’ 

    A green and yellow parrot called Raul clung to her chest as she spoke, dipping its beak occasionally into some milk.

    Rossella recounts her love for her animals in episode 3 of the podcast, Respirano ancora (‘Still they breathe’) which is called The End of Eden.

    There is much of Eden in Rossella’s farm, a place that Dante visits in the last three canti of Purgatorio. 

    Here, atop Mount Purgatory, Dante returns to the prelapsarian perfection of the place from which Adam and Eve were expelled after eating the forbidden fruit.

    In canto 28 he tells us it is the ‘place chosen as the nest for human nature,’ the place given by God to Adam and Eve as a ‘mortgage on their eternal home, until they defaulted on the loan.’ 

    In canto 29, he continues,

    ‘While I moved on, completely rapt, among
    so many first fruits of eternal pleasure,
    and longing for still greater joys, the air

    before us altered underneath the green
    branches, becoming like an ardent fire,
    and now the sweet sound was distinctly song.

    Full of astonishment, I turned to my
    good Virgil; but he only answered me
    with eyes that were no less amazed than mine.

    I halted, and I set my eyes upon
    the farther bank, to look at the abundant
    variety of newly—flowered boughs;

    Here, mankind’s root was innocent; and here
    were every fruit and never—ending spring;
    these streams—the nectar of which poets sing.’

    Rossella’s farm is certainly a place for poets to sing about. The scent of organic lemon trees mingles with jasmine and turkeys and hens roam free across the perfectly mowed lawn. Dogs and cats co-habit with affection and swallows circle out of the barn which they have come to call home. 

    Though she is humble, Rossella is clearly also aware of the magic she has created here, something that is perhaps all the more special because it was almost lost.

    Two peacocks called Dante and Beatrice flirt beside olive trees. This is poignant for it is in the Earthly Paradise in canto 30 at the end of Purgatorio that Dante finally meets his beloved Beatrice. He realizes she has arrived when he ‘recognizes the signs of the ancient flame’.

    ‘a woman showed herself to me; above
    a white veil, she was crowned with olive boughs;
    her cape was green; her dress beneath, flame-red.

    Within her presence, I had once been used
    to feeling—trembling—wonder, dissolution;
    but that was long ago. Still, though my soul,

    now she was veiled, could not see her directly,
    by way of hidden force that she could move,
    I felt the mighty power of old love.’

    The parrot flew over the Kelsey and began nibbling on her long brown hair. 

    We spent the morning catching up with work in the garden surrounded by the four donkeys, Mais, Judith, Quedo and Nerina. They would come over and give us a friendly nudge or nibble here and there. Two rams circled us without menace and there descended a real sense of peace.

    A man called to check whether the five hives of bees had succeeded yet in producing honey. 

    After lunch we set off for the 19 kilmetre walk to Ravenna where we would meet the great man himself, Dante Alighieri. We stopped for a coffee at the restaurant Trattoria da Luciano where some of his cantos were hung up on the wall.

    The path followed the river Montone and the scenery was much like yesterday: agricultural and strikingly flat.

    A road sign warned of crossing children and Kelsey commented that it reminded her of signs back home in San Diego that warn of immigrants crossing the road from across the border. As two bikes came thundering past, she bent down to rescue a ladybird that had an iridescent beak. A poppy hesitantly rose its head.

    We were in the middle of discussing what the ‘social’ means in social policy research when a fit man with walking poles called Walter passed in the opposite direction and wished us a good day. 

    ‘Are you pilgrims?’ he asked.

    It turned out that Walter was a seasoned walker who had done the cammino di Dante some years before when he’d had to take several long diversions because of landslides. Now he was training for his next adventure. I tried to convince him to head to England to tackle the Pennine Way, while Kelsey advocated for the Pacific Crest and John Muir Trails. 

    Quite to our surprise, right there and then, he whipped out a weighing scale with a hook on the end and insisted on weighing my bag. 

    ‘15 kilos!’ he cried out. ‘What on earth are you thinking, you should have a maximum of 10, how have you made it all the way from Florence?’

    Suddenly the blisters made sense.

    He advised us to stop at the house of Giordano Bezzi, the founder of the cammino which we would pass in about 5 kilometres on our way into Ravenna. He was certain that we could just show up unattended, even though it was Easter weekend. Perhaps we would.

    ‘You’ll recognize the house from the huge Dante sculpture outside,’ he advised.

    We passed some road works and three places where the path had been cordoned off by metal fences and barbed wire. Now seasoned to the trials of Italian walking, I knew to head under, round or over them. I tossed my bag over first, careful not to damage my laptop, and then threaded my body around the wire. Kelsey dexterously followed. 

    We passed a man in a green shirt who was tending to his vegetable garden with a hoe and took a break to eat slices of apples with peanut butter. A random plastic chair that was covered in graffiti was situated in the verge beside the river. 

    Kelsey and I discussed Tuvalu’s climate refugees and the efforts the people are taking to preserve their culture. Our next topic of conversation was where in the afterlife we would locate certain politicians.

    As the path became more substantial, we navigated a traffic jam caused by a tractor which suggested that we were nearing the city. 

    Then, there it was, the face of Dante rendered in metal with one eye looking in and another looking out. 

    As we descended the path to the yellow house, a cockerel skitted past a yellow camper van. Would he be in, this Giordano Bezzi, of whom we’d heard such elevated praise?

    It turned out that he was.

    The next six hours flew by. In one of those encounters that happen rarely in one’s lifetime, time stood still.

    Giordano was everything I could ever have imagined of the founder of the Dante trail: an effervescent, extraordinary man who I can only describe as a creative genius.

    In the time we spent together, he showed us around his spectacular garden and told us something of the origin of the trail. Though he’d worked as a pharmacist, now, in retirement, he was a musician and an installation artist. Much of his work is inspired by Dante’s invitation to look inside ourselves as well as out.

    ‘Life is all about reflections and uncertainties,’ he counselled. 

    As I followed him through his sprawling garden which was on the cusp of bloom, I thought of Purgatorio, canto 28 once more’\|| ,

    ‘Now keen to search within, to search around
    that forest—dense, alive with green, divine—
    which tempered the new day before my eyes,

    without delay, I left behind the rise
    and took the plain, advancing slowly, slowly
    across the ground where every part was fragrant.’

    The peonies had flowered early. They were struggling to keep their heavy heads up on delicate stems. They were verdant, vibrant, huge. 

    Some fruit trees had exploded in a blossom of pink and white. Irises lined the path here, and there we entered into a surfeit of melancholy willows before which sat another piece of art.

    ‘Come back in two weeks and it will be a riot of colour,’ he insisted. 

    Every tree, every flower he had planned and planted with his own hands. I felt like Dante being shown by Mathilda the Earthly Paradise in canto 29 of Purgatorio.

    ‘following her short
    footsteps with my own steps, 

    I matched her pace.’ 

    And then there was the art. 

    Here was a sculpture of Don Quixote’s horse made out of tin cans, forks and kettles. When he had presented it, he had ridden it forwards towards a fan that sprayed out pieces of newspaper. This was the windmill, the ‘fake news’, he explained.

    And there, a rendering of Monet’s Giverny emerged from the grass complete with the bridge. 

    He had previously installed mirrors to reflect the water.

    The sunset lit up the sky and, as Dante puts it, ‘little birds upon the branches were in the practice of their arts’.

    I felt like I was witness to the spectacular procession Dante observes in the Earthly Paradise, a forest full of life. Introduced by heavenly songs and blazing lights, Dante sees a burning seven-armed candelabra approaching. Each of the seven candles gives the sky one of the colors of the rainbow. Then a procession follows: 24 elders, four beasts with each six wings covered with eyes, one of them a griffon drawing a two-wheeled chariot, at its left wheel there are three ladies, at its right four, then there follow two men, four humble men and finally an old sleeping man.

    But Giordano, at seventy one, was full of life.

    As Dante describes Eden,

    ‘a sudden radiance swept across
    the mighty forest on all sides—and I
    was wondering if lightning had not struck.

    But since, when lightning strikes, it stops at once,
    while that light, lingering, increased its force,
    within my mind I asked: “What thing is this?”

    And through the incandescent air there ran
    sweet melody.’

    Suddenly, it was 9pm and we hadn’t thought to eat. 

    ‘Fear not,’ said Giordano, I have peas. ‘And let’s put in some laurel to give it the taste of Dante.’

    Thus, we ate a delicious supper together of peas marinated in freshly harvested onions, stock and laurel leaves. Kelsey and I contributed a spinach and cheese crescione and a great deal of gratitude. Her and Giordano also ate some rabbit that was reheated from the night before. 

    The conversation flowed like water. 

    Giordano was as enthusiastic to share his own passions, which comprised jazz – including Kelsey’s favourite, Charlie Parker’s album, Bird –, Pirandello and women’s liberation, as he was to hear about mine. I gifted him a copy of our Dante on the Move anthology and a T-shirt with the front page logo that had been designed by Alina. He was thrilled.

    At 10.30pm we called the hotel in Ravenna to say that we were running late and, after a few more episodes of precious conversation, Giordano gave us a lift into the city in his van. 

    In the van, we still couldn’t stop talking. In a frenzy of new friendship, we were finishing one another’s sentences. This was unreal. 

    He was intense but so was I. And, for once, that was ok! In fact, it was more than ok, it was appreciated, cherished even.

    When was the last time I had felt so seen?

    Giordano dropped us by our lodging, Hotel Centrale Byron, and we dumped our bags before making the short walk around the corner to Dante’s grave. It was nearly midnight, and we had the whole place to ourselves. We sat before the great poet on the cold cobbled floor.

    I read Kelsey the blog I had written ready to publish in the morning and, as I did so, tears filled my eyes. It felt so special to be reading my work out loud here to her, before the bones of Dante. I had made it to him and now all that was left was to return to Florence in his honour.

    We purchased some red roses from a Bangladeshi street seller called Mashalim which means ‘to be safe, secure, at peace.’ 

    Two of them we threaded through the bronze gates of his mausoleum; the other one I gifted Kelsey and the fourth I would carry with me to Florence to place outside his cherished San Giovanni where Dante had so desired to return to be ‘crowned a poet’.

    We returned to the hotel, slightly disappointed with the filthy carpet and 80’s bathroom décor after what had been such a jubilant day. 

    I was contemplating how on earth I could show my appreciation for Giordano when there appeared a message on my phone.

    It read:

    ‘Flowers are not only in gardens,

    but they also walk with a backpack,

    the scent of intelligence that you leave

    is inebriating and indelible.

    Your garden is the work with those

    young refugees, you manage to sow

    flowerbeds with smiles, you work like

    a bee, you build bridges of

    looks, you gamble with

    invisible things.

    Your pen becomes the sting

    for stupidities and blindness,

    I will certainly eat your honey.’

    ‘I fiori non sono solo nei giardini , 

    ma camminano anche con lo zaino, 

    il profumo di intelligenza che lasci 

    è inebriante e indelebile.



    Il tuo giardino è  il lavoro con quei 

    ragazzi, tu riesci a seminare delle 

    aiuole con i sorrisi, lavori come 

    un’ape, costruisci ponti degli 

    sguardi, giochi d’azzardo con le 

    cose invisibili.



    La tua penna diventa il pungiglione 

    per le stupidità e le cecità, 

    Certamente mangerò il tuo miele.’


    I stroked the necklace Alina had gifted me of the almond plant which flowers before it bears fruit.

    Perhaps my honey was also in the process of production on this cammino. 

  • In the Distance: Florence to Pieve a Pitiana

    Renaissance paintings line the route, but be wary of getting lost in the wood of suicides.

    Though I remain determined it is what Dante would have wanted, starting my pilgrimage in Florence, Dante’s birthplace, rather than his site of exile and death, Ravenna, had the drawback of beginning with what is said to be the hardest day of the cammino: 30 kilometres with an ascent of 895 metres. Though I’ve been training back in the UK in the Peak District near my home, I was somewhat daunted as to how the day would unfold.

    I woke around 7am to the sound of birds singing and the chiming bells of Santa Spirito, the ‘church across the river’. I left Anna and her family sleeping soundly as I packed up my bag and tried discretely to exit the jewelry studio through the glass double doors that opened onto the quiet street. Succulents a hue of pink and green occupied window boxes along the cobbled passage into which the sun was sneakily smuggling its first rays of the morning. 

    In Santo Spirito square the market sellers were already setting up their stalls: leggings, knickers, pot plants, copper bracelets and beaded earrings the size of oranges. Two dogs – one caramel and fluffy, one white and slick – frolicked by the central fountain while their owners puffed on cigarettes and made casual conversation.

    I took an espresso macchiato and looked across at the church. Among other delights, it contains the Madonna with St. Catherine of Alexandria and St. Martin of Tours by Filippino Lippi. The altarpiece is also known as Pala de’ Nerli from the name of the commissioners, Tanai de’ Nerli and his wife Nanna, who are shown in donor portraits at the sides – the Renaissance equivalent of a selfie. 

    The painting was commissioned by the church in 1494, so some 100 years after Dante walked the squares of Florence. Lippi’s style is sensual. Gone are the 2D Giotto era portraits of Jesus looking like an adult squeezed into a baby-sized body. Lippi was a contemporary of Botticelli whose fleshy Madonnas continue to mesmerize visitors to the Uffizi with their delicate features. 

    The Uffizi Gallery literally means ‘offices’. It is named after the seat where the city’s rulers used to conduct their affairs. Once business was conducted in the Bargello, now an art gallery home to dozens of Donatello sculptures where Dante would have served as a member of the political elite. 

    The Bargello is the ideal venue to trace the complex relationship between Dante and his home city. In the Sala dell’Udienza of the then Palazzo del Podestà (today the Salone di Donatello), on 10 March 1302, the poet-politician was condemned to exile. In the adjacent Cappella del Podestà, a few years later, Giotto and his school portrayed Dante’s face for the first time, including him in a fresco among the ranks of the elect in Paradise. It is said to be the first ever portrait of Dante.

    The façade of the Santo Spirito Church is striking in its simplicity. As I passed and continued towards the Ponte Vecchio, runners wove in and out of my path and trucks disembarked cargo to one of Florence’s hundreds of eateries. One box read, ‘Lobsters and fresh mussels.’ 

    An Asian couple were taking wedding photos on the famous bridge which connects the Uffizi Galleries to the Pitti Palace which the Medici once called their home. Her veil glittered in the morning sunlight as the photographer insisted they ‘kiss, kiss, kiss!’

    I took a second coffee when I reached the Piazza del Duomo which, unlike the rest of the still sleepy city was bustling with life. Tour groups followed umbrellas like leaf cutter ants and carriages pulled by horses escorted tourists through the narrow streets. In Venice, the streets are known colloquially as ‘rughette’ or ‘little wrinkles’. I smiled as I recalled this fact, spreading wrinkles across my own face.

    Then came the time for our meeting. 

    Alina arrived, her flaming red hair licking her collarbone and cascading over her shoulders.

    She was wearing a beautiful black coat over sweatpants and a running jacket designed by one of the fashion houses for whom she had previously laboured. She had succeeded in stashing a huge amount into her small backpack.

    ‘That’s what comes with moving around a lot,’ she said. ‘And the coat? Well, if you invite a refugee on a walk, they likely only have one coat, and this is it.’

    We hugged tightly, shedding the first of what would be several tears over the coming days, and reached out and touched the walls of the baptistry where Dante had been immersed in 1265 and to where he had hoped one day to return as a poet post-exile. In Paradiso canto 25 he writes,

    ‘If it should happen . . . If this sacred poem—

    this work so shared by heaven and by earth

    that it has made me lean through these long years—

    can ever overcome the cruelty 

    that bars me from the fair fold where I slept,

    a lamb opposed to wolves that war on it, 

    by then with other voice, with other fleece,

    I shall return as poet and put on,

    at my baptismal font, the laurel crown .’

    Se mai continga che ’l poema sacro

    al quale ha posto mano e cielo e terra,

    sì che m’ha fatto per molti anni macro, 

    vinca la crudeltà che fuor mi serra

    del bello ovile ov’io dormi’ agnello,

    nimico ai lupi che li danno guerra; 

    con altra voce omai, con altro vello

    ritornerò poeta, e in sul fonte 

    del mio battesmo prenderò ’l cappello . ‘                        

    It is tradition to depict poets in Italy with laurel crowns, one now adopted by students who port the symbol on graduation day. When we completed our Reading Dante with Refugees course in Rome, I made sure that all of the students received from Stephan, the Director of the Trinity College Rome Campus that hosted us, a laurel crown. 

    Alina, a Ukrainian refugee fashion designer turned feminist activist, was one of the eleven refugee students who took my class. For her final project she imagined her own journey from Inferno to Paradiso through the lens of the Italian bureaucracy. In the short film she made for the course, Paradise of Exiles, she shows herself moving from the dark wood (she literally, set off at 2am to shoot in woods outside of Rome) followed by the Purgatory of refugee status determination and the eventual Paradise of finding peace in Rome’s art scene. She filmed the final scenes at an exclusive shoot at the Galleria Borghese where my friend Stefania Vannini is a curator. She looks resplendent with her red hair against the green walls. I’m there in the background cheering her on.

    Since the course finished two years ago, I have become somewhat of a mentor to Alina, even though she is only five years younger than me. I know the value of mentorship having experienced it first-hand myself so many times over: Julie, Andi, Janey, Joyce – you know who you are.

    We took our time winding through the bustling morning streets before passing to the river, beside which we hiked a good few kilometres before turning up a road that led us outside of the city. For the entire morning, the Florentine landscape peaked out behind us like a jester egging us on. Each time we turned around she was more distant. I thought of Dante and how close he would have come in his exile. While we know, as this trek honours, that he dwelled at several lodgings by the river Arno, did he get close enough to see the cityscape which then would have been teaming with medieval towers and devoid of today’s famous domed landscape curated by Brunelleschi and Giotto?

    Swallows sprung from under bridges and inside cemeteries, disturbing the air with the gentle flap of wings. Street corners were embellished with Madonna and child.

    Alina and I chatted fluently in our colloquial mix of Italian-English as we followed the path up, up, up and left the gilded city in our trail. At 11.30 on the dot we stopped at a bench overlooking the city for her to join a call with two interns working for her holistic creative agency, Sensi, who were running an event on refugee wellbeing. I took the time to check our route and enjoy the delicate scent of crocuses that filled the spring air. 

    Despite her small bag, Alina had packed in an impressive amount of food including ‘unsalted bread’ from her local Bangladeshi deli. I was relieved to find that I was able to stomach dates again after a traumatic incident in Syria where I spent a 12-hour bus journey to Jordan munching on a bag-full only to find, upon sunrise, that it was also filled with ants. Oh well, protein is protein.

    Alina shared her news and I caught her up with my life. We’d both spent depressive winters hiding beneath the sheets of our beds and were grateful, like the crocuses, to be coming back to life. I had nominated Alina to be part of the Nobel Women’s Initiative Sister to Sister mentorship programme in 2023 and now she’d been invited to participate in a peacekeeping mission to Ukraine. It’s a funny kind of pride I felt as both a teacher and a friend. 

    ‘It’s about time women got some coverage in the Ukrainian-Russian conflict in Britain,’ I commented. ‘Too true,’ she observed.

    Once we had taken in the last glimpse of the Duomo it was after lunch. We ate schiacchiata sandwiches, a Florentine delicacy which literally means ‘squashed together’.

    The day was hot.

    In the town of Bombone we stopped to refill our water bottles and I marveled at the fact that the town council had voted to put in a well that featured not just purified still, but fizzy water. I made the mistake of filling my camel drinking pouch with it, only for it later to explode inside my bag. Luckily though my bum got soaked, my laptop survived.

    We met a kind faced 80-year-old lady who Alina showed how to use the fountain,

    ‘In all these years, I’ve never known,’ she said. ‘Buon cammino!’

    A lot of Alina’s utterances start with the phrase ‘before the war’, just as mine do with ‘before my divorce’. Before long we were completing each other’s sentences. 

    ‘Before the war, I got my eyebrows done.’ 

    ‘Before the war, I worked for Alexander McQueen.’

    ‘Before my divorce, I worked for openDemocracy

    ‘Before my divorce, I thought that by simply loving people I could change the world.’ 

    Perhaps something of the latter is still true.

    Mum dropped me a text asking how it was going, addressing me as ‘her Marco Polo’. 

    Benissimo,’ I replied.

    I was so happy to see Alina. 

    Despite her slender Ashtanga yoga and capoeira molded frame and my own body, bloated with anti-depressants, she was less trained for the hike than I was. She pushed on honorably in her sneakers rarely complaining or even stopping to drink water. Layers were taken off and on as we moved in and out of the sun. 

    ‘I can’t get over the fact someone has gone to all this effort to mark this trail!’ I kept repeating, euphoric that someone out there might be more obsessed by Dante than me. Each sign post for the Dante trail had been marked with a red sticker on a lamppost or a wooden sign with the letters CD singed into it by hand by the trail’s father, Oliviero Resta, who I hope to meet in person in Ravenna.

    I would say it was hard to get lost if it were not for the half an hour detour we took tumbling down a dark forest following the GPS and ignoring the very clear ‘no trespassing’ sign. It turned out we were right, but the forest spooked us both. As we crossed the barbed wire and our feet became trapped in brambles, I thought of the documentary, Green Border, I recently watched about refugees seeking to cross the Belarussian-Polish frontier at the edge of Europe.

    ‘You can imagine Dante feeling a little shitty here, eh?’ we remarked. 

    Finally, arms shredded with brambles we were back on solid ground.

    We passed fields of tortured vines that provided a rich supply of local wine and stopped at a vineyard called Fattoria Pagnana to taste the local fare and buy a bottle for tonight’s hosts, a family of six who look after the local church. While much of today consisted of being barked at by aggressive guard dogs, at the winery the two brown dogs approached us tails wagging and tongues lolling out of their mouths, desperate for a touch. Alina like me is an animal lover. 

    ‘Don’t lick my face!’ She squealed.

    They licked her face.

    At 5pm, our host, Stefano offered to pick us up in the neighbouring village but we were insistent that we would carry on. We resisted the temptation to stay in Rignano sull’Arno for a Palestine solidarity music night and arrived at Pieve a Pitiana at around 8 in the evening with the sun setting behind us. 

    We had both been spooked by getting lost in the forest earlier in the day and now as the sun set, the sun kissed vines metamorphosed into Dante’s wood of suicides.

    In Canto 13 of Inferno, Dante encounters those who have taken their own lives, following on from Canto 12 where he depicts those who have been violent towards others or their possessions. The canto is heavy with negativity:

    ‘No green leaves in that forest, only black;  

    no branches straight and smooth, but knotted, gnarled;  

    no fruits were there, but briers bearing poison.’  


    ‘Non fronda verde, ma di color fosco;

    non rami schietti, ma nodosi e ’nvolti;

    non pomi v’eran, ma stecchi con tòsco.’

    Dante is remarkably kind to the souls, much to Virgil’s chastisement, asking after them and their stories. Virgil encourages him to snap a branch off one of the oaks from which blood drains and the soul within orates. This is how he meets Pier della Vigna, an advisor to Frederick II who killed himself when his reputation was ruined by false rumors. Frederick asks for Dante to heal his reputation on earth, because this is the only part of him that survives outside of Hell. Though encouraged by Virgil to interrogate the tree like an asylum seeker on trial, Dante is so stirred by pity that he says he cannot think of anything more to ask the soul.

    Dante describes the tortured woodland as infested with harpies who abuse the souls by ripping off their branches. In an act of symbolic retribution, it is said that when each of the blessed and damned will return with their body from the Last Judgment, those damned for suicide will not re-inhabit their bodies but instead hang them on their branches, both because they denied them in their final act of life and as a reminder of what they denied themselves. Salvador Dalí depicted this starkly in one of his many paintings of the Commedia.

    As I mentioned above, Alina and I had spoken over the course of the day frankly about our own very difficult winters. Previous experiences of depression and suicidal thoughts had also weaved their way into our casual conversation, as they had many times before. It felt concrete and somewhat scary to see this fictitious scene brought to life. 

    We arrived at the church of Pieve a Pitiana to a roaring fire and an equally warm welcome from our host Stefano, his wife Giorgia, Stefano’s mother and their three bubbly kids. Anna, the middle girl-child was excited to practice her English, asking us about our favourite sports, meanwhile the youngest boy was keen to discuss all things Pokémon, later gifting us each a precious Pokémon card (I got Chansey, super power level 80. Get in!)

    He had been off school sick and held his arm in a sling made from a shredded blanket. 

    ‘You look like a Roman wearing a toga!’ I commented, at which he giggled. His dimples pitted his face like someone had imprinted it with little olive pips. 

    We ate a simple meal of pasta al pomodoro with eggs from the three happy free-range hens that were the family pets and aubergine marinated by Stefano’s mother. Stefano and Giorgia talked to us about the 600-year-old house and the church that had even longer foundations. They had met in Peru. Their oldest son Michael was a bit timider but cited to us the first verse of the Divine Comedy after remarking, 

    ‘Wow, you guys are like really, really into Dante!’

    I think they were glad to have someone to talk to.

    After dinner there followed a private tour of the church where we were able to marvel at the paintings of Ghirlandaio, an early Renaissance painter of the Florentine school noted for his detailed narrative frescoes. One had been stolen, Stefano explained, and a replacement had been installed. He was careful to put on the alarm before we left. Alina said a short prayer. 

    The house sits beside an NGO that works with local migrant children and the two stories Alina and I shared were strewn with half-finished craft projects and colourful drawings on the walls. Since we both work with refugee children, it was a sight familiar to us both. They marked a stark and stunning contrast with the 14th century stonework which peaked out at points from beneath the pastel plaster. 

    With full tummies, Alina and I headed to our bunks in the arts room, sleeping beside loo roll easter bunnies and papier mâché masks. A warm shower was most welcome. My inner heels had developed thick blisters while Alina’s little toes looked like they had come down with plague sores.

    An open fire kept us warm and dried our soap rinsed socks and knickers as we snuggled into our blankets and rested our weary limbs. 

    Apparently, I screamed out at one point in the night but this I don’t recall.

    Recommended watching (turn on subtitles): Paradise of exiles: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-o-lUZq_71E

    Recommended watching: Green Border: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt27722543/

    Recommended reading: openDemocracy 50.50: https://www.opendemocracy.net/en/author/jennifer-allsopp/